i must say i think that when a person ends up dressing in almost exactly the same thing every day, it generally happens as a result of way less thought and planning than say, u DudleyGray, are giving it. it happens because you have developed an identity, not because you are searching for one. i get the impression from you Dudley that you are very young, and still unsure of yourself and who you are or want to be. which is fine. but perhaps you should just take it all a little easier. talk less and listen more and just slow it down. i mean that in the nicest way possible.
for me, i am very much a uniform wearer for most of the year. i like what i like and i buy enough of it to not have to wear it dirty lol. in the cooler months i add a tiny bit of variety to it but its still very much in the same style. one big big reason for this is that its one less thing to think about. it looks right on me, suits my personality, feels good, i don't have to plan shit, and i can pack a big in just a few minutes.
this is not to say that there is anything wrong in being the exact opposite. thats just another identity. some people are naturals at being all over the place. there are so many different styles and looks and designers that i appreciate and admire and i would love to experiment in all these different things. mostly because its just good fun. but i don't. its not me. its just not where i am at in life. other people are and thats cool too. i can do it in my mind...
but then theres the third kind. the dressed by the internets kind. the trendy kind. thats the kind that sucks.
for me, i am very much a uniform wearer for most of the year. i like what i like and i buy enough of it to not have to wear it dirty lol. in the cooler months i add a tiny bit of variety to it but its still very much in the same style. one big big reason for this is that its one less thing to think about. it looks right on me, suits my personality, feels good, i don't have to plan shit, and i can pack a big in just a few minutes.
this is not to say that there is anything wrong in being the exact opposite. thats just another identity. some people are naturals at being all over the place. there are so many different styles and looks and designers that i appreciate and admire and i would love to experiment in all these different things. mostly because its just good fun. but i don't. its not me. its just not where i am at in life. other people are and thats cool too. i can do it in my mind...
but then theres the third kind. the dressed by the internets kind. the trendy kind. thats the kind that sucks.
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