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Fashion is a form of ugliness so intolerable that we have to alter it every six months - Oscar Wilde
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Originally posted by guardimp View PostIt doesn't seem to make sense, to find someone and mold them into what you want them to be. There are enough people in the world that you can surely find someone who authentically shares your values. Why settle for some imitation of your own creation?Fashion is a form of ugliness so intolerable that we have to alter it every six months - Oscar Wilde
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None of the women I've dated has the audacity to suggest a style change, that seems absurdly rude, right above "you would look great if you lost 10 pounds."
I don't like that idea that it's shallow to share an interest in fashion, considering fashion is a sort of visual form of communication. If anything, identity and self expression that are reflected by fashion are anything but.
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Some people tend to take clothes for granted; they don't put much thought into them the same way they don't put too much thought into what they eat, for example.
The girls I have dated in the last couple of years have been like this. One day they decide to make an effort to eat healthier stuff, and they buy non-fat flavored drinking yogurt the next time they go to the grocery store.
I never say anything about their clothes or their food choices. But I don't hide the deliberateness of my own choices. As we get to know each other better, they eventually come to appreciate this aspect of me and follow suit by giving more thought to how they present themselves or their lifestyle choices, or, at least, they respect me for it (as I can respect them for their integrity or convictions).
In a recent interview, Rick said he looked for a partner to lead an "aesthetic life" with and that's what he had found in Michelle. As to me, I judge the girls by the way they dress or the music they listen to or the books they read, but there's a difference between judging and acting upon our judgements.
My current girlfriend doesn't read much (outside school--she has two masters), only listens to commercial hits and is an awful dresser in the sense that not only has she an underdeveloped sense of personal taste, but she doesn't even have a basic grasp of what flatters her figure and complexion and what doesn't. The only comment she's ever made regarding my clothes is that according to her they make me look intimidating and not approachable (something I'm actually ok with).
I think one can still lead a happy relationship with someone based on shared values and goals. But in all truth, I admit it'd be more fun if we could share the same interest in aesthetics. So far, aesthetics in general and clothes in particular are things that I've kept to myself when in a relationship. I guess this will make knowing when I've found "the one" easier.
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Originally posted by guardimp View PostIt doesn't seem to make sense, to find someone and mold them into what you want them to be. There are enough people in the world that you can surely find someone who authentically shares your values. Why settle for some imitation of your own creation?
Selling CCP, Harnden, Raf, Rick etc.
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Originally posted by daou0782 View PostSome people tend to take clothes for granted; they don't put much thought into them the same way they don't put too much thought into what they eat, for example.
The girls I have dated in the last couple of years have been like this. One day they decide to make an effort to eat healthier stuff, and they buy non-fat flavored drinking yogurt the next time they go to the grocery store.
I never say anything about their clothes or their food choices. But I don't hide the deliberateness of my own choices. As we get to know each other better, they eventually come to appreciate this aspect of me and follow suit by giving more thought to how they present themselves or their lifestyle choices, or, at least, they respect me for it (as I can respect them for their integrity or convictions).
In a recent interview, Rick said he looked for a partner to lead an "aesthetic life" with and that's what he had found in Michelle. As to me, I judge the girls by the way they dress or the music they listen to or the books they read, but there's a difference between judging and acting upon our judgements.
My current girlfriend doesn't read much (outside school--she has two masters), only listens to commercial hits and is an awful dresser in the sense that not only has she an underdeveloped sense of personal taste, but she doesn't even have a basic grasp of what flatters her figure and complexion and what doesn't. The only comment she's ever made regarding my clothes is that according to her they make me look intimidating and not approachable (something I'm actually ok with).
I think one can still lead a happy relationship with someone based on shared values and goals. But in all truth, I admit it'd be more fun if we could share the same interest in aesthetics. So far, aesthetics in general and clothes in particular are things that I've kept to myself when in a relationship. I guess this will make knowing when I've found "the one" easier.Selling CCP, Harnden, Raf, Rick etc.
http://www.stylezeitgeist.com/forums...me-other-stuff
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Originally posted by daou0782 View PostI think one can still lead a happy relationship with someone based on shared values and goals. But in all truth, I admit it'd be more fun if we could share the same interest in aesthetics. So far, aesthetics in general and clothes in particular are things that I've kept to myself when in a relationship. I guess this will make knowing when I've found "the one" easier.
In fact to some extent I think I prefer girls who doesn't share the same taste. The conversations can become a bit boring and repetitive if you both are really into this stuff. Hmm...but I guess it depends on you, the girl, the level of interest and the type of relationship.
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Originally posted by Lucky Strike View PostYes, Ive been in relationships where the girl is really into my style and encourage me, buy stuff as gifts etc, and Ive been in relationships where the girl doesn't care at all about my style (or her). It's not a deal breaker. If you find someone intelligent, funny and charming...clothes becomes pretty unimportant, at least for me
In fact to some extent I think I prefer girls who doesn't share the same taste. The conversations can become a bit boring and repetitive if you both are really into this stuff. Hmm...but I guess it depends on you, the girl, the level of interest and the type of relationship.Fashion is a form of ugliness so intolerable that we have to alter it every six months - Oscar Wilde
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Originally posted by guardimp View PostAlso it helps when your lifestyle synchs up with your clothing choices as you begin to fit with your surroundings and colleagues. Its a big difference from wearing "the typical zeitgeist-clothing" in a large fashion-forward city versus in a rural area. I find that most negative reactions are from people who are unused to seeing some of the stuff discussed here.
Dunno how Shucks manage, maybe Rick stuff is more acceptable than let say Boris?Last edited by Monoral; 11-28-2014, 03:20 PM.
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Originally posted by guardimp View PostWhy is it hard to find interesting people? Do you think that most people are boring, or just that it is hard to find someone that has interests that you find exiting?
By the way, we do have a thread for this topic, but I suppose we've gone far enough already...
Fashion is a form of ugliness so intolerable that we have to alter it every six months - Oscar Wilde
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Originally posted by guardimp View PostWhy is it hard to find interesting people? Do you think that most people are boring, or just that it is hard to find someone that has interests that you find exiting?The morning is not enough.
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